Is SMH disrespectful?
SMH can be disrespectful in some situations and contexts. “SMH” is a text abbreviation for “shaking my head,” which is a sign of frustration or disapproval (similar to how you would shake your head “no”).
If you say “SMH” about another person’s actions, it’s disrespectful because it’s a form of gossiping. If you say “SMH” about a situation that’s beyond a person’s control, it’s not disrespectful.
You should generally reserve “SMH” for topics that you and the other person agree upon and that aren’t disparaging of other people (e.g., mutual friends or coworkers).
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